agency
i love the expression "i'm gay for X". i really, really like what it does with agency/POV (i'm not sure how to describe it exactly). like rather than saying, "X is [attractive/hot/insert adjective]" as a property of X, i am instead talking about a state or feeling that i am experiencing. plus it's nicely vague about what i think is attractive about X/why i think X is attractive/in what way i am attracted to X.